This June, on my wedding day, it will be 6 years since we have graduated HS. 6 YEARS?! Not a clue where those years went, but they definitely came and went...and left roughly 20 extra pounds on me. Yep, you read that right. 20 lbs. People, I am 4'10! 20 extra pounds did not look good on me! I officially had a FAT face, double chin and all. My stomach is/was way too big for my proportions. The whole deal. I would look back at pictures from HS, and I couldn't believe I thought I was BIG at 110. I mean, really?!
Well, when I got engaged a year ago (in 9 days), I decided I was NOT going to weight my heaviest on my wedding day. I was going to do ANYTHING besides eat better and work out for HOURS a day. I did pretty well. I was working out at least 4 days a week from March - Sept(ish). The scale BARELY moved. It was incredibly frustrating, school started, and I pretty much gave up. Don't get me wrong, I still wanted to look better for pictures, so I kept doing some physical activity...maybe 8 days a MONTH...pathetic. Surprisingly, I didn't see any changes. I probably gained a lot of weight, actually. So in January my friend and I decided enough was enough. She is getting married a few weeks after me, which has been super exciting from the get go, but having her as a partner in crime during the last home stretch of the current journey has been great!
Since January, I have lost 10lbs. Yes, it has taken me 12 weeks, but I currently weigh right around 119.5lbs, and I am SO proud of that. I finally decided that maybe I need to look at my diet. My mantra has always been "I refuse to give that up!" Guess what?! I am sticking to it! But guess what else?! I CAN'T EAT ICE CREAM EVERY NIGHT AND BE UPSET I AM NOT LOSING WEIGHT! I can count on one hand the amount of times I have had ice cream since January, and ice cream is my FAVORITE treat. For the first time, though, I have decided that as much as I love ice cream, I hate my body more. It isn't just ice cream. It's candy sitting in my closet, it's buttery mashed potatoes, it's pasta...or anything delicious for that matter. I refuse to tell myself that I can't have it. I refuse to give up any of the things I love because I don't want to give up all those favorites to hit a magic number on a scale, only to gain all my weight back when I feel like I can start eating it all again. HOWEVER...I eat a lot less of all of those things. I am not eating pasta every night. I have only touched the M&Ms and Laffy Taffy in the closet a few times (in 3 months, people!). Ground turkey is taking over the role of ground beef. Little changes, slow progress, big results.
Feb 3 and Mar 16 :)
SO proud of you! You're doing such a great job and I know you're going to look amazing on your wedding day! So glad we're going through all of this together! You've been a huge help with my goals too! :)
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