I have 15 pages to add to my research paper and another 5 page assignment for another class.
So naturally I decided to write a blog post instead.
I have a serious case of baby fever. Dan and I got married 4 months ago tomorrow, and I know for a lot of people this would be "too soon." But Dan and I have lived together for over 2 years now. We were together 8.5 years before we tied the knot.
So if I wasn't in school, I would be so ready! I think Dan would be, too. If we both had jobs, we would definitely be financially stable enough to support a little one, and for me, that is a priority.
I know that we have to wait. And we are. There is no way I could give a child all that he/she needs with my school obligations. I feel bad enough that I am neglecting my husband, animals, and friends. Clearly there isn't time for a child that would require so much more than I already give of myself.
Knowing those facts doesn't make it any easier, though.
I see pictures of my sweet nieces, friends' babies, and pregnant bellies, and I get a little jealous. I know that I will have my turn, and I know that in the long run, this is what is best, but it's still hard.
Next month, I will be 25. That is by no means old, but it still feels old! Maybe that is part of this. A "crisis." ;)
All I know is, I have to GET OVER IT! Otherwise, the next 2 years will be ridiculously long! I just need more baby fixes of other peoples' kids... :)
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